As long as we think it's "out there," outside of us, something that will be bestowed upon us...
we feel separate from it.
And thus, we remain separate from it.
You can't be in something toxic and be ok.
You can't be in something draining and be ok.
You can't stay where you're being put down or shut out and be ok.
You can't thrive where you feel invalidated.
You can't be your best you in something that doesn't see the best in you.
You can't do your best work in something that doesn't nurture your best work.
You can't feel expansive inside of something that boxes you in...
Here is a message I recently wrote to my community.
It's for you any time you are in a period of loss, big transitions, confusion, or a sense of change you can't control at all.
Dr. Cailin O'Hara is a passionate intuitive healer, teacher, coach, and forever student of life here to translate her experiences into hope, wisdom and light.